DH has been doing the grocery shopping due to my stunning lack of mobility, and was telling the two littlies that only one could go with him as they fight, argue, disagree, blame and generally drive DH mad. Now the littlies love to go, because they have DH wrapped around their fingers, and generally come home with a treat. The Wahs, it was decided went last time, so this time was Neeky's turn. However, The Wah's (not one to give up without a fight) sweet talked DH, telling him how helpful, quiet, well behaved and unargumentative she would be if he would take her too.
The Neekyism - Neeky turned to The Wahs and said "it doesn't matter how good you are going to be. Dad won't see it because you aren't going".
Soooo true, you can't see someones behavior if they're not there with you!!!